A Traveling Humanitarian Reflects on Changing Perceptions of Home

For someone who works all around the world, Merve Kan thinks a lot about the word “home.” Born in Turkey, she started her humanitarian relief career five years ago, after writing her Master’s thesis on the resilience of migrants and their perception of home. This theme plays itself out in her work today as a clinical psychologist working with refugees uprooted by conflict and disaster—people who precariously straddle the lives they left behind and the ones they are working to build.

Merve’s interest in the subject started years ago when she visited villages in Armenia, where descendants of victims of the Armenian massacre live today, as a part of an oral-history project. Says Merve, “The idea of home in their mind was very different from the reality. “ She recalls an old man who would painstakingly watch the mountains to ease his anxiety, making sure that he could always see the Turkish side. Despite being born in Armenia and living there, the villagers were “in love with the idea of Anatolia.” Merve started to think, “These people are not really living there—they were living in a dream world. And what they were picturing was not real, it was in their imagination based on the stories of their ancestors.”

The Armenian guy overwatching Ararat Mountain in the Turkish Anatolian

Back in her own country, Merve studied those who came to Turkey from Greece as a result of the population exchange arising from the Treaty of Lausanne in 1923, which displaced 2 million people from Turkey and Greece. Seen as non-Muslims, the forced migrants did not fit into Turkey’s culture, so they kept their stories from their “homes” always present in their minds. Merve also volunteered with Afghan and African asylum seekers who have lived in limbo in Turkey for years, waiting for their fate to be decided by a government that legally does not recognize them. (As a partial signatory to the Geneva Convention, Turkey accepts refugees only from Europe.)

Merve got her start in humanitarian relief working in Syrian refugee camps in eastern Turkey, focusing mostly on gender-based violence (GBV). She joined International Medical Corps in Iraq—work she calls “very dynamic and interesting”—then transferred to Turkey as a Mental Health and Psychosocial Support (MHPSS) Manager, helping to provide training for three local partner organizations. Merve notes increasing incidents of GBV amongst Syrian refugees, with the inferior social status of women as the root cause, but also triggered by broken social structures and changing gender roles due to displacement.

Merve providing training to IMC turkey partners’ staff

Both GBV and MHPSS tend to deal with things that have happened in the past—often violent or distressing events that leave people with mental and emotional imprints. But the refugees with whom Merve works also have a number of daily stresses with which to contend—from not having a home, to dealing with economic stress, from interpersonal and family challenges to educational barriers, domestic violence and more. They also have to cope with the challenges of integration, including anti-refugee sentiment, a language barrier, difficulty in obtaining government services and so forth. Merve says that her team still sees physical symptoms in children due to war-related psychological wounds—but more and more, their mental health needs can be attributed to current conditions, such as bullying in schools, rather than pain from a place they left years ago and of which they have little memory. Says Merve, “It’s less and less about the things that happened in Syria.”

In the beginning of the Syrian conflict—which began eight years ago and has yet to abate—many of the refugees living in camps were “a bit frozen in time,” according to Merve, and still hopeful about returning home. But as the refugee population—officially at about 3.5 million but estimated to be much higher—increased dramatically, many people started living outside the camps, clustering instead in “ghettos.” These days, Merve rarely hears the refugees talk about going home.

IMC Turkey staff photo

For this, she credits their strong religious beliefs, along with the recognition that their lives in Turkey—where they can get many of their daily needs met and send their children to decent schools—are better than the ones that they would live out in war-torn Syria. Merve and her team continue to support the refugees’ transition from conflict to recovery, bolstering their innate resilience to adapt to new circumstances. And with each passing year in a place that becomes more and more familiar, their perception of “home” continues to evolve.

With more than 3.5 million Syrians living within its borders, Turkey hosts the highest number of refugees in the world. Ninety percent of Syrians in Turkey live in host communities and face economic pressures to cover rent and living expenses while job and livelihoods opportunities are often limited. As the Syrian civil war grinds into its eighth year, Syrians in Turkey are uncertain of if and when they will be able to go home, if ever, making it essential for refugee assistance programs like International Medical Corps’ to foster self-reliance and social cohesion between refugees and host communities.

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